The Do's and Don'ts of Christian Dating Advice from a woman preacher who says she's learned how to handle relationships with men the hard way. Beliefnet Let’s begin by defining dating in broad terms. For us, dating or courting is a small part of the overall process of determining God’s will for discovering your life partner in marriage. In our family the focus has not been on dating, but more on training our teens in their character and in how to develop a relationship with the opposite sex. The Stages of Love - - Read about Christian dating and get advice, help and resources on Christian single living.